How do I get over this?

I had a very good job at a very prestigious hospital. Unfortunately, I had a bad year, I was depressed soo bad, I called offf alot, even took a couple months on FMLA. After I used all those FMLA days, I still called out alot. They were very patient with me, but, a new manager came in, and I was terminated,,,,, after being sent home by occupational health, and taking subsequent days off.....This job was perfect. It was great money, all the OT i wanted when i wanted it, benefits perfect, I moved closer to be near it, everything. Now I am in a very small community hospital where they send you home on a regular basis, because they just dont have the volume , the benefits are three times what i was paying, and they suck...... has anybody been in this situation? I am just heartbroken, and I cant beleive I lost this job. I feel like a loser, and I desperately want to be in a level 1 trauma center again. Any advice or words of wisdom? Please?
I would work on yourself first while you have the other job. Then after you get yourself stable, you can try your desired job again. Best wishes to you.

How do you mean, exactly, happywife?

I assume she means get your depression treated and whatever other issues that caused you to call out resolved. Unless that is truly fixed, you will likely keep running into the same troubles.

Quote from RNOTODAYHow do you mean, exactly, happywife?

Oh,ok, I understand now.... yes, I am on medication and I am in a better emotional state of mind now. I also have learned my lesson about calling in.......although, at the time, I didnt see it as a choice to call in, I was simply sick.. mentally...... I dont expect to go back to that employer, I just dont see it happening. Im just soooo heartbroken over what happened, embarrassed, and feel like i totally blew it (well,, i did) this was a place I was at for 7 years, and I planned to retire from. I am just hoping to get into a larger hospital, but there are just no openings to even apply for lately, I have a very obscure specialty ... so I guess I am lucky to have a job at all..... but Im just disgusted with myself.....plus my husband totally resents me for even being depressed and losing that cash cow of a job. and all the OT I was doing... which MAY have been contributing to the depression, idk.

You might want to get some psychotherapy to help you sort everything out and be successful at the new job. Best wishes.

Psychcns... i simply dont know where to begin......

Sometimes, there is no quick solution to our problems. We simply have to endure a period of hardship ... work through it ... and come out the other side. I think that is what you are going to have to do now. You will probably need to stay at your current job for a while as you build up a positive employment record and professional reputation. If you can't handle that emotionally, you will need to seek counselin/mental health treatment/etc. to help you get through it.After you have rebuilt your professional reputation and job history (which might take a couple of years) ... then you can seek a job somewhere else that is more desirable to you. The important thing now is that you don't let your current emotional distress derail your current job. That would only hurt your professional reputation even more. So you need to direct your energies into succeeding at your current job and remaining emotionally healthy.I hope you find peace of mind soon.

Also, call the person who is prescribing yourmedication, tell him/her you are still depressedand you would like a referral for counseling. Youdo not have to suffer alone. Give yourselftime to heal..

I'm so sorry. Life (and all its variables) goes in ebbs and flows, and sometimes the "flows" don't always jibe with our "ebbs." Life can hit hard, and Murphy's Law dictates that the hard times occur at the most inopportune of moments. Take your situation and make lemonade out of lemons. This experience may just be the impetus needed to push you beyond what you previously considered your limits. Anyone who is human and has spent any length of time in the adult world, has most likely experienced periods of extreme trial. You are not alone.And, yes, I am glad you learned your lesson about calling in. Please don't take advantage of it. Keep in mind that almost everyone you work with has a multitude of difficulties, tragedies ,and stresses in their own lives at any one time. Reserve "calling in" for times when you cannot walk more than 50 feet without passing out.

Quote from PsychcnsAlso, call the person who is prescribing yourmedication, tell him/her you are still depressedand you would like a referral for counseling. Youdo not have to suffer alone. Give yourselftime to heal..

Yes I just meant to take of you. I hope your husband can let go of the resentment and push for your health rather than a cash cow job. Maybe try to find a support group where you share with others that are going through similar struggles.