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The Ovarian Cancer BluesRating: (votes: 0) Comment:
My grandma died of ovarian cancer at 54. Scares the bejeezus out of me.
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My paternal aunt died of ovarian cancer in her 30s. I think that ovarian cancer doesn't get the research that is needed and more aggressive ways to help detect it because it's "chick cancer"; even men get Breast CA, and I'm suspicious that was a main reason (along with aggressive campaigning after decades) that it get's the attention that it does.In my mind all cancers need to have the same funding to help detect it and ensure early treatment.You have my support.
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My post will probably offend some. That's not my intention, I just wish to put my observations and perceptions out there for consideration. Here goes:I find it disconcerting that political and media savvy have become so influential in determining funding for research and treatment of disease. Breast cancer is a devastating illness that has been thrust into the forefront of American awareness (I believe at the expense of other equally devastating conditions) that have not benefitted from a media savvy organization like the Susan G. Komen Foundation.Everyone knows and loves a woman who has had breast cancer. This makes for a very sympathetic cause, and it is natural to want to support a sympathetic cause. But those qualities may have persuaded some donors to divert their dollars away from other medical research for less "picture perfect" causes, including testicular cancer, which researchers indicate now lags behind progress in breast cancer, due largely to disparities in funding, even though at one time, both received approximately the same amount.I also wonder if the American public would tolerate the same innuendo or even blatant in-your-face promotion of a disease affecting male genitalia that is seen with t- shirts and slogans bearing images of breasts and slogans like "Save the Ta Tas."Would female athletes be encouraged to wear blue uniforms in support of men facing surgery to remove their testicles, facing lifelong infertility, or possible sexual complications following radical surgery to save their lives? Or are these conversations considered too graphic? Why has no women's organization yet taken up this cause the way the NFL has taken up Pink October?With all the recent hoopla surrounding the ALS ice bucket challenge, did anyone consider how unfortunate it is that sufferers of one of the most cruel diseases known to man depend on social media trends to receive funding for basic research?ALS just doesn't have the sex appeal of Ta Tas. Nor the funding.
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Quote from LadyFree28My paternal aunt died of ovarian cancer in her 30s. I think that ovarian cancer doesn't get the research that is needed and more aggressive ways to help detect it because it's "chick cancer"; even men get Breast CA, and I'm suspicious that was a main reason (along with aggressive campaigning after decades) that it get's the attention that it does.In my mind all cancers need to have the same funding to help detect it and ensure early treatment.You have my support.
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TELL YOUR SISTERS...When educating women about Ovarian Cancer, it is important that those with a strong family history of Breast Cancer consider speaking with the Genetic Counselor, and before age 40 whenever possible.BRCA1 and BRCA2 gene mutations are hereditary, and associated with an extremely high risk of breast cancer (as high as 87%). Most women who have heard about the BRCA gene mutations believe this is a 'breast cancer' gene, but that is only part of it. A mutation of BRCA1 and BRCA2 carry a horrifyingly high risk of Ovarian Cancer. And for the reasons the OP stated, ovarian cancer is generally detected in late stage, and there is no cure. With genetic testing to identify deleterious markers in women who have a strong familial background of breast and ovarian cancer, women can be better informed of their own risk and make pro-active choices. I am BRCA1, and my genetic marker (del 1290) carried up to a 42% lifetime risk for ovarian cancer. My BC risk was up to 87%. I chose to be tested because three consecutive maternal generations had BC and OC. When my tests came back with deleterious markers, I made choices. I planned my elective double mastectomy and reconstruction, and planned the oophorectomy for six months later. I did not know, at that time, that I already had breast cancer. My surgeon discovered it while I was on the operating table. So much for dodging the breast cancer bullet.After six months of chemo, and six months of recovery, I finally scheduled my oophorectomy. This time, when I woke from surgery, I had GREAT news: no signs of cancer whatsoever in my ovaries or peritoneal cavity.For those you love, and for your patients, please share that there are very serious genetic risks that significantly increase the likelihood of ovarian cancer. And a HUGE indicator is a strong family history of breast cancer, or a blood relative with ovarian.Being armed with information, and choices, can save a life. It saved mine.Love to all my sisters.
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I talked to my doctor at my last annual visit, and she asked if I had considered just having them taken out. I'm only 39, and even though I'm done having kids, I still consider myself to be "using" my ovaries because, frankly, I have a great sex life and I know the hormonal activity of my ovaries contributes to that. I'm not ready to give that up. When I'm in the week right before my period, I have almost no desire for sex. I could be a nun and be totally fine with it. If I get my ovaries removed and feel that way all the time, I'm afraid of how that will affect my marriage. I don't want to be stupid, but these choices are hard. I have not had any genetic testing.Do NOT respond with any form of comment about how my husband must be a selfish d'bag or I wouldn't have to worry about this. If you've been married any length of time, you know how complicated it is. My husband is amazing and has proven over and over his willingness to sacrifice for his family.
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I don't think anyone would say that about your husband. Sex is a very important part of marriage, although certainly not the only part, and yes, marriage is complicated. No need to be defensive about your decision to keep your ovaries, it's an individual decision that only the woman involved gets to make.
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As an ovarian cancer survivor, I have felt some resentment towards the focus on breast cancer. My cynical thought is that breasts are sexy, internal organs are not. Any type of awareness and research is great. Thanks for a good article.
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Great thread!Jolie - I appreciate your candor and agree with you.Honestly, I think breasts get the attention because . .well, breasts get attention. The pancreas or gallbladder or prostate or lung or brain or ovaries . . . not so glamorous. I truly doubt that the fact that men sometimes get breast cancer has anything to do with the publicity breast cancer gets . . . . That information was kind of late to the game as a matter of fact.
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Quote from Aurora77As an ovarian cancer survivor, I have felt some resentment towards the focus on breast cancer. My cynical thought is that breasts are sexy, internal organs are not. Any type of awareness and research is great. Thanks for a good article.
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Quote from duskyjewel I have not had any genetic testing.Do NOT respond with any form of comment about how my husband must be a selfish d'bag or I wouldn't have to worry about this. If you've been married any length of time, you know how complicated it is. My husband is amazing and has proven over and over his willingness to sacrifice for his family.
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