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6 Just wondering if anyone else has experiences like this?

I first noticed it when I was in nursing school, and we were orienting on the floor. We would go in a room with a patient, and I would smell this sicky-sweet odor, and around a week later, the patient would be dead.

It continues to this day. I have smelled Lord knows how many smells, but this one almost defies description. The only way I can compare it to anything is to think of really concentrated Swish and Swallow, that nystatin stuff. I love the way it smells, but this other smell is like S&S overkill.

I finally started piecing it together when I noticed a pattern with the smell and the demise. My instructors never could understand why I would walk in a room to help, and get a weird look on my face. My co-workers later could not understand it, they just knew something was up by the look on my face. It was especially sad when the patient was thought to be improving.

It happened with my FIL. DH knew that SOMETHING happened to me when a person was about to pass, and I had already told him that I was not going to tell him if I sensed anything. The last time I saw FIL was the only time I did not hug him. I would have bawled, and given it away. I regret not hugging him, but not like I would regret giving my MIL and DH 4 days of a deathwatch. Afterward, as we were headed to the funeral home, DH looked at me, all teary, and said "You knew, didn't you? You've been weird since we saw him the last time."

Smelled it with my Grandmother, and squalled for 3 days solid, before there was really anything to squall about.

And I smell it still, with patients I see in hospital. I hate this. It's as bad as getting that gut feeling to pull the code cart outside the lady's room. There is no more helpless feeling than knowing what is going to happen, and knowing just as well that you're powerless to stop it.

Anyone else get this, or get an inkling as to the demise of a patient? I've heard about bad patients asking to have a BM, and nurses knowing that that was it, we've all heard about the "last turn", but does anyone else smell anything beforehand?

Or am I just a freak?
there's anecdotal evidence that animals react differently around humans that end up dying. Some speculation is that they can smell something.

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No Angelfire, you're not a freak.Many of us on the unit I work acknowledge there is a smell to death. I won't say that I can smell it all the time, or that I would bet money on it, but certainly there is a pervasive odor. When I worked in Hospice, the RN's there would also comment on the smell of death.Perhaps your senses are just more fine tuned.

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Quote from AngelfireRNJust wondering if anyone else has experiences like this?I first noticed it when I was in nursing school, and we were orienting on the floor. We would go in a room with a patient, and I would smell this sicky-sweet odor, and around a week later, the patient would be dead.It continues to this day. I have smelled Lord knows how many smells, but this one almost defies description. The only way I can compare it to anything is to think of really concentrated Swish and Swallow, that nystatin stuff. I love the way it smells, but this other smell is like S&S overkill.I finally started piecing it together when I noticed a pattern with the smell and the demise. My instructors never could understand why I would walk in a room to help, and get a weird look on my face. My co-workers later could not understand it, they just knew something was up by the look on my face. It was especially sad when the patient was thought to be improving. It happened with my FIL. DH knew that SOMETHING happened to me when a person was about to pass, and I had already told him that I was not going to tell him if I sensed anything. The last time I saw FIL was the only time I did not hug him. I would have bawled, and given it away. I regret not hugging him, but not like I would regret giving my MIL and DH 4 days of a deathwatch. Afterward, as we were headed to the funeral home, DH looked at me, all teary, and said "You knew, didn't you? You've been weird since we saw him the last time."Smelled it with my Grandmother, and squalled for 3 days solid, before there was really anything to squall about.And I smell it still, with patients I see in hospital. I hate this. It's as bad as getting that gut feeling to pull the code cart outside the lady's room. There is no more helpless feeling than knowing what is going to happen, and knowing just as well that you're powerless to stop it.Anyone else get this, or get an inkling as to the demise of a patient? I've heard about bad patients asking to have a BM, and nurses knowing that that was it, we've all heard about the "last turn", but does anyone else smell anything beforehand? Or am I just a freak?

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I worked in ICU for three years- I totally agree with you and your description of the smell was also accurate- I would just add a little musky to your description.

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Wow, that is really something! omg

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Yes- I have smelled that same sickly-sweet smell many a time. And you're right - not everyone notices it. It has always seemed so distinct to me though. It is always sad when you smell it when you are not expecting it, especially if your patient seems to be fine and not have a clue. Have never had a family member die after me noticing it - I feel for you- that must have been a difficult position to be in

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When I worked in Nursing Homes and even now as a CMA I could smell that smell and just know. It is a sweet syruppy smell. I have actually had two " prediction of death" dreams and the pt died with in days.

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prediction of death dreams give me the willies. Only had one, maybe two. Definitely one months before my FIL died. It was even before we got the phone call saying he had prostrate CA. I don't recall the dream, just know I woke my husband and said we have to take a week off and make the two day drive to Florida. Now. And we did, it was the last time we saw him alive. For me it was much different then the death smell.

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I wonder if part of the smell you're talking about is related to dying patients having ketoacidosis. That's a sweet smell...

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I think you have a gift. I'm able to "know" before it happens, either by smell or by sensing a change in the energy. It's startling at first, but I've learned to use it to help make their last hours/minutes/days as comfortable as possible. Hopefully I can carry that into the nursing field as I go.Thank you for sharing this. It's a powerful sensation.

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Quote from WhisperaI wonder if part of the smell you're talking about is related to dying patients having ketoacidosis. That's a sweet smell...

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My sister passed away 3 years ago in a hospice facility...I thought the smell then was particular to some cleaning product they were using...now that I work in a hopital I've noticed it again a couple of times....but I didn't connect the dots that is what I was smelling until now....thanks I think.Nebrgirl
Author: alice  3-06-2015, 19:09   Views: 574   
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