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Hoping for a job offer....Rating: (votes: 0) I know there are SO many people here in the same position I'm in as far as looking for a job, but I'd appreciate any good vibes sent my way! I was terminated from my job in April due to what was a false accusation (it's a long story and I won't go in to it, but I have not yet entirely gotten over my anger about the whole thing....it was a SHADY situation that ultimately, I couldn't do anything about). I've had a few interviews in the last few weeks, the most recent was last week Monday. I would REALLY love to get this job. To most nurses, honestly, it probably would sound boring as heck...it's a more administrative type of position with an insurance company. However, it would fit ME perfectly. This was also the one interview that I both a) was NOT nervous about going in, and I can be a nervous person! and b) had a really good feeling about, both before and after it. I hope I can trust that gut feeling. The two people I interviewed with were VERY nice, and impressed with my background. I did opt to explain to them the situation with my previous employer, because in the end, I think trying to be "vague" or talk "around" it would look worse. I tried to read their body language and tone AFTER I got done talking about it, and I didn't pick up on anything negative. The woman thanked me for telling them the story, saying that I didn't have to and that she appreciated my honesty (I said I thought it was better to put everything on the table and have an open, honest discussion about it, and she said she agreed). I acknowledged that talking about it I might be shooting myself in the foot (it was a serious allegation, and even though it was not true, I know how it sounds), but thought full disclosure was the best approach. I won't hear anything until the end of next week, and I will be crossing my fingers and praying until then! My friends and family have been extremely supportive of me through everything, and have said that maybe being terminated was actually a blessing in disguise, and that I would end up somewhere where I was truly happy. I hope they are right! Thanks for letting me share, it feels good to get that out! (Sorry to be vague here about the circumstances; it's a long story and I just would rather not get in to it ![]() Good luck on the job. I think you handled the interview well. I've always felt interviews that I've had where I was upfront about anything "negative" went better than ones that were all 100% positive. I feel like having something negative to talk about shows wisdom, resillience, etc. Comment:
I'm sorry to hear you were screwed but happy to see you are looking outside of bedside (I am considering some stuff as well). Heck I was corporate before nursing, and I have always wondered about combining the two. I seem to have missed the good times for nursing "back in the good days" like 8 years ago as nurses refer to them on this board. I truly believe those days are gone for longer than I will wait for them to return.
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+ vibes n prayers sent your way. I support you in being honest and open. Helps to tell them what you learned from it (if there's a positive way to say trust no one!)
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Thanks for the support, I appreciate it!I went back and forth in my head a LOT over how to handle the subject of my termination, and just couldn't think of a good way to avoid it that didn't sound like I had something to hide...so I figured, if I laid it out on the table, they would know I wasn't trying to. You never know what they might hear at SOME point in time, so better to be upfront...I hope!Onaclearday, I totally agree with you.......the good old days are gone for me, and I really wasn't happy where I was working, haven't been for a while. While this was NOT the push I would have chosen to find something else, I can only pray that in the end, it'll all work out!
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Quote from onacleardayHeck I was corporate before nursing, and I have always wondered about combining the two.
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:heartbeatGood Luck!:heartbeat
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