Work/life balance... where to start my career?

I have just graduated and await to finish the paperwork to become an RPN. I am having trouble deciding where I should apply for work, so any advice is appreciated. Here's the dilemma...
It comes down between hospital or home care.
I would really like to work on a maternity floor, so working in a hospital will get me there. I am concerned about the 12 hour shifts.
In home care, I can basically create my own schedule, but it doesn't get me on the path to maternity.
I have a husband on disability and a toddler at home.
I love being a scout leader, playing in a big band, and teaching piano 1 day a week. People from each of these areas are getting anxious and asking if I'll be able to continue once I start working. Each of these are major parts of my life and bring me a lot of joy.
How do I choose???
Friends have said "do what you love", "12-hour shifts suck", "you'll get paid more in a hospital"...
I am also nervous about the fast pace of the hospital. Ah!!! I just keep going back and forth. Do I go for the money, access to internal hospital jobs and pursuing the specialty I've most enjoyed? Do I go for an easier pace, a more flexible schedule, the ability to continue hobbies and volunteering and family activities?
Please help!
I chose work I enjoy, with salary a close second. I would not be happy with my life generally if I hated going to work everyday, and also if I am not making enough money to life comfortably at least. Schedule would be third.

In this economy you apply for everything and take the job actually offered to you. Good luck.

Do you need to make a lot of money for your family to be ok? If so, I may apply to a hospital. If money isn't an issue, I would do the home health as you said you have lots of other activities you like to do. If money is no issue maybe you can find a part time hospital job, leaving you with enough time to pursue all your hobbies.