Am i doing things right...?

OK So i'll try to compress as much of this as I can...

I graduated from a Medical Assisting program in May of 09 only... midway I wanted to leave just to go straight for nursing. I've been working in ophthalmology for nearly 2 years now and am finally on my way (hopefully) to LPN school this January 2011...

I am currently 22 y/o living with my fiancee, we support each other financially and I've been on my own right out of high school with no help from the parents. With that said, I am choosing to go for my LPN first because of the shorter duration of schooling, allowing me to work with higher pay and save more along with getting more experience before going for my RN.

I currently am so TIRED of my manager (not my job) so I am looking for something Per Diem until LPN school starts. Should I just grin and bare it? I absolutely adore the pts i have in ophthalmology of which most are geriatric pts. which is also why i'm excited for grabbing experience in LTC as an LPN.

BASICALLY, I get a bit nerve wrecked at times because I feel like i'm bouncing all around, or is this normal? People tell me I'm wasting my time w/LPN school if ultimately I want to go for my RN, however I could not imagine letting my fiancee support both of us while I go to school for 2+years. Is it alright for me to feel this sort of way, am I getting ahead of myself? Any advice... criticism, lol chastisement would help...
Don't feel bad about bouncing around. Just there as long as you can. You can always get a loan to support you while you are in school.
thanks ms_sgr, i guess it really is all about the financial aspect of things that i'm worried about.
I can understand, I' m already $30,000 in debt from my first degree. Just an FYI, word is going around that they are getting rid of LPN and pushing them to get their BSN. They are trying to make BSN the entry level position. You can work at the hospital after your first semester. You are young, don't worry about the finances, a lot of hospitals have repayment plans, also go to the Sallie Mae site and sign up with UPromise and get your friends and family to link to your account. Once you become a nurse you can work OT to pay off your loan. Don't let your finances be the reason for you taking the shorter route. Also since you don't have a degree you might be able to get a grant.
Quote from JonJon88 I want to go for my RN, however I could not imagine letting my fiancee support both of us while I go to school for 2+years. Is it alright for me to feel this sort of way, am I getting ahead of myself? Any advice... criticism, lol chastisement would help...
Quote from ms_sgrI can understand, I' m already $30,000 in debt from my first degree. Just an FYI, word is going around that they are getting rid of LPN and pushing them to get their BSN. They are trying to make BSN the entry level position. You can work at the hospital after your first semester. You are young, don't worry about the finances, a lot of hospitals have repayment plans, also go to the Sallie Mae site and sign up with UPromise and get your friends and family to link to your account. Once you become a nurse you can work OT to pay off your loan. Don't let your finances be the reason for you taking the shorter route. Also since you don't have a degree you might be able to get a grant.
Quote from Jules AI think this is an excellent path to take. Getting my LPN first allowed me to actually have something in my hand after only a year and make a decent buck while I went back for my RN. Since I was older there was no way I was going to stop working for school. I know a couple of RN students who failed out in their last semester with only their CNA to show for all their time and hard work! Good luck, you sound like a smart cookie.
Quote from ms_sgrI can understand, I' m already $30,000 in debt from my first degree. Just an FYI, word is going around that they are getting rid of LPN and pushing them to get their BSN. They are trying to make BSN the entry level position. You can work at the hospital after your first semester. You are young, don't worry about the finances, a lot of hospitals have repayment plans, also go to the Sallie Mae site and sign up with UPromise and get your friends and family to link to your account. Once you become a nurse you can work OT to pay off your loan. Don't let your finances be the reason for you taking the shorter route. Also since you don't have a degree you might be able to get a grant.
You love your job right? Try to stick it out while going straight for your RN. Where I live LPN's are not used in hospitals. Take an extra year to obtain your degree and then you can work LTC as an RN supervisor after a few months. I know many who have done this. I orginally went for my ASN with a similar plan as yours, thinking once I start working then I'll go back. Honestly, once I graduated and the stress of nursing school was over I didn't want to go back! Now most hospitals in my area prefer BSN's and I'm dreading going back. Plus once you get married have babies, you won't want to be studying all the time!Heck, with the way healthcare is nowadays skip Nursing altogether and become an ophthamology tech! okay enough of my rant....
There are a couple of options here:1. Go to school to be an LPN, finish in a year. 2. Go to school to be an RN, get an associate's degree or diploma (you don't have to get a BSN!), and be done in 2 years. You'll be eligible for grants and loans to help you pay for the cost of school and living expenses for the two years. For instance, I took out enough money to pay four months worth of rent per semester, and then paid my landlord for four months at a time. That lessened the load of needing to work so many hours while I was in school. This advice also works for your LPN program, for what it's worth.3. Go to school to be an LPN, finish in a year, and then go back to be an RN if you decide that's what you'd like to do. You're not limited to staying an LPN at all.Have a long discussion with your fiancee. See what her input is. She may prefer to support you both for two years now, if you think that you're going to want to become an RN, instead of having to figure it out once there's a baby in the picture or on the way. You may be better prepared to handle this as a couple now, while things are more flexible, and there are fewer demands on your time, than once you're married. It's hard to be in nursing school and be engaged, I can't imagine being in nursing school and being married, and forget doing it with kids. I always admired my fellow RN students with multiple children. Figure out what's best for both of you... don't just do what you think is right as one of the providers in the relationship. Good luck. This is a difficult decision to make. Together, you'll come up with what's right for the both of you.
thanks so much guys and gals. I really appreciate all the input. It's really helped me relax a bit more about the situation. Another good thing is, my fiancee is male and we aren't going to adopt until we're ready. That takes some pressure off of the being engaged during schooling. I know it still doesn't make me feel any better about having him work full time but knowing that I'll be able to have financial aid help with living expenses definately helps with the nerves. :redpinkhe you all!
Im a beginning Nursing student ( I start in Aug). I want to eventually get my RN and maybe my BSN. I am starting LVN first one cause Im afraid it will go to fast for my and I will fail out. So, I figure get my LVN and then Ill have knowledge under my belt before going through RN. and two, Im honestly not sure if I truely want to go after my RN. I figure I get the LVN, see how the RN positions are in the real world vs what the schools and career centers tell you ( some sugar coat it) and see if I do want to be an RN.I dont see anything wrong with going after your LVN first. Ive heard a lot of people on here say they are glad they went LVN before RN and some of them now have their BSN. JMO, I feel it will make me a more well rounded nurse if I have gone up the ranks from the little man all the way up ( no offense to anyone). I will more understand where they are coming from, because I have been there.
Hi John!I know I'm a little late, but I just came across your post and felt compelled to reply. I'm a COT and have over 15 years experience in ophthalmology. How long have you been a tech? Are you certified? Being a tech is a fantastic job and gives you invaluable experience. If you don't like your supervisor but like your job, I think you should continue on the tech track and pursue your RN, since that's what you really want to do. Being an LPN is great for some people, but since it's not ultimately what you want, I think you should skip it. You're in a pretty sweet spot having a good job with patient care. If you aren't certified, get certified quickly. Getting your COA is a snap and with minimal experience, you should pass the test easily. If you have your COA, get your COT. Once you are certified, you can literally write your own ticket. Get a job with a different clinic. Contact all of the large clinics in your city. Ask to speak to the technician supervisor and explain that you are looking for a new position. Even if they aren't actively looking for techs, you are likely to get an interview. Large clinics ALWAYS need talented, skilled staff. I strongly recommend getting into the largest possible clinic for the following reasons:1) They will support you going to school2) You can likely get time in the ASC. Most large clinics have their own ASC. You can get very valuable surgical experience this way. It's huge when you are applying to nursing schools. 3) You will work with a large base of doctors with many different personalities. This will help prepare you for your nursing career. You'll get use to speaking to docs and bringing things to their attention when you notice something wrong.4) In a larger clinic you are more likely to be able to switch days/times of work accommodate your nursing school schedule when the time comes. In addition to all this, you are doing yourself a HUGE favor. We all know the job market is not great for nurses right now. If that trend continues, and you have several years of ophthalmic experience, you can easily work as an RN in any ophthalmic setting whether it's clinical, surgical, or management. Knowing this may help ease the financial burden your fiance feels. I know it makes my husband feel better knowing there is a definite light at the end of the tunnel. Best of luck to with your decision. If you have any questions about the tech world or certification track, don't hesitate to email me. I'm getting ready to start a BSN program next month and am currently working as COT so I know exactly how you feel!! Just try not to fall asleep while you are counting to two all day