Army Nursing Path

I am currently serving in the Army National Guard (E4) and was wondering how to proceed with my career.
My plan: Finsih my ASN or BSN ( most likely BSN) and reenlist as an Officer.
My problem is I have a boyfriend and we are in a serious relationship. We are both in the Army but his reenistent is before mine. He will not be an officer in the future at least not before me. How do I go about moving with him and if we do end up married will we end up at the same duty stations?

I need some valuable advice.